Teens and Screens: 8 Strategies to Developing Healthy Screen Management

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Teens and Screens:

Remember having to call a friend on a landline? Remember having to wait for your favourite show to air on tv? Remember being bored?

These are experiences our kids will probably never have. Many parts of their lives are mediated by screens; everything from social connections to education to entertainment comes to them via a screen of one kind or another. Whether it’s smartphones, tablets, computers, or gaming consoles, these screens have become an integral part of their daily lives. Inevitably, screens are shaping their behaviors, social interactions, learning patterns, and mental well-being.

Parents, educators, and researchers are grappling with understanding and managing this aspect of teenage life. What exactly is the impact of excessive screen time on teens’ mental health? What are the implications for their social relationships? How will instant gratification shape their ability to deal with hardship or frustration? How much is too much? And what can parents do to manage screen time when our kids live so much of their lives through their phones?

Effects of Excessive Screen Time on Teens

We already know excessive screen time can have a negative impact on many aspects of teens’ lives. Some examples are:

  • Physical Health: Excessive screen time often means less physical activity. Teens who spend too much being sedentary are at risk of obesity, musculoskeletal issues, and poor posture. Lack of exercise and too much exposure to screens can also have a negative effect on sleep.
  • Mental Well-being: Research suggests a link between excessive screen time and mental health issues like anxiety, depression, and low self-esteem among adolescents. The constant exposure to curated and often unrealistic portrayals on social media can impact their self-perception and mental health.
  • Social Interactions: Over-reliance on screens can get in the way of face-to-face social interactions, affecting teenagers’ social skills, empathy, and ability to build meaningful relationships. Excessive virtual interactions might lead to a lack of real-world connection and empathy.
  • Academic Performance: Uncontrolled screen time can affect teens’ ability to focus on school work. The constant distraction of social media makes concentrating on difficult subjects even less appealing and may impact teen’s cognitive abilities. 

However, don’t lose sight of the important role phones play in teen’s social lives. Like it or not, this is how teens keep in touch with friends, develop their identities as part of a social group, make plans, and feel a sense of belonging. Parents need to be careful about taking that vital means for connection away from their child.  However, there are measures parents can take to strike a balance between accepting the prevalence of screens and placing restrictions on our teens’ exposure to digital media.

8 Strategies for Developing Healthy Screen Management

1. Set Limits and Boundaries:

Establishing clear guidelines on screen time and content consumption is crucial. For instance, make family meals screen-free. Teens should understand that face-to-face interactions with important people in their lives take priority over virtual connections. Encourage teenagers to take regular breaks from their screens and to participate in physical and outdoor activities

2. Lead by Example:

It’s easy to give advice but if we’re not following that advice ourselves, it’s unlikely to have much impact. Adults use of screens plays a pivotal role in shaping teens’ behavior. If you model healthy screen habits by limiting your own screen time, prioritizing face-to-face interactions and engaging in quality offline activities, you can positively influence teenagers’ behaviour.

3. Encourage Digital Literacy:

No, teens don’t want to hear about why screens can be bad for them, or about the dangers of some of the content they consume online. Tell them anyway. Remind them of the impacts of too much screen time on their physical and mental health. Educate teenagers about responsible technology use and teach them to be critical about what they are consuming online. Empower them to discern between credible sources and potentially harmful content.

4. Collaborate on Screen Time Rules:

Have discussions with teens about which aspects of screen usage are most important to them. Be upfront about what is non-negotiable to you and what you are willing to be flexible about. Create rules that take into account both of your priorities. This can help teens feel more responsible and committed to following the guidelines they’ve helped establish.

5. Encourage other activities:

Spend time supporting your teen’s other interests. If your teen plays sports or is interested in other extracurricular activities, show your support by attending games or plays, making sure they have the equipment they need, driving them to practice or to meet up with friends. Your support will remind them that these are the important things in life and cannot be replaced by virtual experiences. 

6. Use Parental Control Settings:

This generally works better with younger teens, as older teens will resent the interference and often find ways around parental controls. For younger teens, settings that limit screen time or access to certain apps or websites can help parents to have some control over how much online content their child is consuming, as well as over the nature of that content.

7. Create Tech-Free Zones:

Aside from family occasions, the most important screen-free space is often the bedroom. That doesn’t mean that older teens won’t take their phones to their bedrooms at all. However, parents can implement rules to protect teen’s sleep by keeping phones away from bedrooms during the night. This not only prevents teens from staying up too late, or having their sleep patterns disturbed by blue light, but also provides some space away from the constant pressure of social media. 

8. Maintain Communication:

Be open with your teen about your concerns around the impact of screens on their physical and mental health. Make sure they understand why you feel the need to create rules to manage their screen time. Accept that teens will chafe against any restrictions on their freedom and that you may have to reassess rules that aren’t working. Encouraging dialogue with your teen, listening to their concerns, and offering guidance and support without judgment, will help to make guidelines easier to accept.

Navigating Teen Screen Time

Remember that every teenager is different, so it’s important to adapt these strategies to suit your teen’s personality, interests, and needs. Additionally, maintaining open communication and showing understanding while reinforcing the importance of balanced screen time can go a long way in effectively managing your teen’s screen time.

Fostering this open communication with your teenager is a crucial aspect of maintaining a healthy family dynamic. If you find yourself facing challenges in establishing this connection, family therapy can provide a supportive and constructive environment. Our dedicated team is here to assist you in navigating the complexities of parent-teen relationships and strengthening the bonds within your family. Don’t hesitate to reach out; together, we can work towards fostering understanding, harmony, and improved communication. Contact us today to take the first step toward a more connected and resilient family unit.

At Tod Augusta Scott Family Therapy, we have experienced counsellors based in Halifax, NS who can offer individual, couples and family therapy. To book a therapy session, visit our book now page

This blog is for informational purposes only and does not constitute therapeutic advice.

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